“Many of us are afraid to stay on our own, agreeing to toxic relationships with only one goal – to avoid loneliness. But they do not understand that being alone, they will feel no loneliness, but freedom.”
This is a valuable time in your life when you get the opportunity to learn new things, explore the world, reach maturity, observe and develop. Moreover, this is the time when you focus all your absolute energy on working on yourself and on achieving your goals.
Relationships can take up all of your time and energy, especially if they are one-sided. But tango takes two, and it takes two to build a healthy relationship. If both partners do not make the same effort to maintain the bond between them, you can not hope that it will be strong. It’s so painful to know that your relationship is moving in the wrong direction, isn’t it?
Yet loneliness and self-love can bring you much more enjoyment out of life than any tainted relationship. In the end, we all hope to be accepted and appreciated for who we are. And if your partner can’t give it to you, then you should definitely reconsider whether it is worth continuing to try to change him, or you should just go your own way without him.
Listed below are six compelling reasons why being alone is better than being in a relationship with the wrong partner.
1. Loneliness gives you freedom.
Being with someone who does not respect your boundaries and limits your freedom is very unfair to you. This is why being alone is so much better. You do whatever you want, go wherever you want, and communicate with those you like without any need to explain something to someone.
Unfortunately, too many of us are afraid to stay on our own, agreeing to toxic relationships with only one goal – to avoid loneliness. But they do not understand that being alone, they feel not loneliness, but freedom.