Let’s get straight to the point. Relationships cannot be the only source of happiness in your life.
Let’s get straight to the point. While relationships are supposed to make you happy, at the same time they cannot be the only source of happiness in your life.
Yes, in a relationship it is very important to be vulnerable and open with each other, but outside of this relationship, you must maintain a sense of your own independence as a person. You don’t want your self-esteem to depend on whether you are in a relationship with someone or not. Allowing happiness to depend solely on romantic relationships can put tremendous pressure on the relationship itself, risking ruining everything.
1. You automatically adopt the mood of your partner, no matter how you feel yourself.
You are always imbued with the mood of your partner, not because you are compassionate, but because you are afraid of what might happen if you two are not on the same wavelength. You care too much about the world in a relationship, so you prefer to imitate the “right” feelings.