2. Compliment your partner.
After all, it’s not difficult to tell your beloved how beautiful she is. Tell your husband how charming he looks today and how his new suit looks. Do not skimp on the kind and warm words. Be sure to celebrate all the good things that are in your partners, emphasize at every opportunity that you appreciate their help and support.
When I come home from work in the evening, and my wife, tired of household chores, meets me, I always say: “Thank you, darling, for taking care of the children all day. I appreciate it and am very grateful. ” As you can see, only one minute, only two sentences, and a loved one already feel loved. Or something like, “You cook so well / are considerate of me / make me feel loved,” etc.
I try to thank people and celebrate all good deeds. For example, I always note when they have not forgotten to do what they were asked to do: “Thank you for remembering my request, I really appreciate it.” Or: “Thank you for trying so hard for our common cause. It means a lot to me. “
I confess that I am not a fan of hearing or pouring compliments. This is by nature. However, I regularly give compliments and have to admit that they have the most miraculous effect on relationships. By the way, getting them, as it turned out, is also nice.
My wife just loves compliments. These little courtesies help her feel more confident. In addition, she is convinced once again that I notice how much energy she spends on our family, how she works on relationships. With just a few words, your partner feels loved, appreciated, and cared for. I am sure compliments help strengthen the relationship. So don’t be stingy – donate them as often as possible!
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