6. When you take something for yourself, take something for him.
To be honest, I borrowed this advice straight from James Sam, but it’s very useful advice and it’s very easy to follow!
Going for coffee at your favorite coffee shop? Grab him his favorite latte or cappuccino! Heading to the kitchen to make yourself a hot ham and cheese sandwich? Offer to make one for him too!
The point is not at all how much money I spend on this gift, the point is that then I have the opportunity to tell him: “Listen, I was passing by a surfer shop here, I remembered about you and took this for you there”.
In fact, everything is simple: to say “I’m going to the kitchen for a sandwich, do you want to do something?” it only takes a few seconds, but it has an incredibly positive effect on your relationship.
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