7. Look into his eyes.
You do not have to constantly gaze at your chosen one with a loving look – as if you were both fifteen years old and you first got out on a date with him. Just take a moment to catch his loving eyes with your gaze, and let him know that you, too, love him to the point of insanity.
If you, like me before, believed in most of the stereotypes regarding men, you hardly think that your man needs your loving gaze – after all, men are “supposed” to be harsh and not particularly emotional – but … just try it. Look him straight in the eyes, smile and hold your gaze on him for about three seconds. By the way, this technique is a great flirting technique, as it makes the person you look at feel like they are the only man in the room, even if they are not. Yes, I understand that you have long ago “lasso” this man, making him your boyfriend or husband, but he still deserves to feel special and unique in the whole world.
It’s actually simple: Look him straight in the eye. Smile. And repeat as many times as necessary.
One of the secrets of a long and happy relationship is your desire to give your partner many happy moments – if, of course, your partner is willing to do the same for you in return. It is not for nothing that psychologists argue that marriage becomes much happier and more successful if partners treat each other with kindness and compassion, not taking each other for granted.
Of course, following the advice collected in this article is not always easy, although I pretend it is. Sometimes they require us to be vulnerable in a way that we are not at all used to. I understand you perfectly in this, because I have found myself in your place more than once, and, most likely, I will find myself more than once in the future. But you know what? It was worth it.
And also ask your partner about all the little things that make him happy – I’ll bet anything that you already make the most of them.
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