Aren’t the smart, the gifted, and the special more attractive and desirable? Doesn’t everyone fall in love with them? Unfortunately, this is not the case.
It’s great to be different, to be special. We are proud of our uniqueness. We pride ourselves on being different from others. It makes a person interesting. This gives charisma and indicates the presence of special talents and abilities.
But not everything is so simple and rosy when you are unique. The fact is that such people have a rather difficult problem: to match the rest, which is all very different.
1. A lot of guys may think that you are “out of their league”.
Incredible, but true: when you are too smart, or too beautiful, or too wonderful – it scares! Guys sometimes find it so difficult to come up to you and try to get to know you, that they prefer to silently sigh and … walk by.
There is a way out: you must be the first to show at least some slightest initiative. Show the guy that you like him too, cheer him up – and he is yours!