7. They choose happiness.
When people stop looking for endless relationships, they stop putting themselves under emotional stress. They learn to make themselves happy in a different way and bring it to the fore. Moreover, such people become less susceptible to manipulation.
They have already had to face their worst fear – the feeling of loneliness. But in fact, the expected suffering did not overtake them after that. And since the end of the world is postponed, then they begin to compromise not only with their own desire to build relationships but also with other aspects of their lives. They begin to realize that it is better to be alone for a while than to live with the wrong partner.
All this leads to gaining self-confidence, carefreeness and less exposure to stress. And since we form our environment based on our own worldview, then similar people appear around us. This is how a pattern is formed when on the path of life there are more and more happy, self-sufficient people who are really ready for a serious relationship.
You can easily draw parallels between all of the above and the fate of your friends. Chances are good that they were able to build a long-term relationship for this very reason. In fact, love appears when you least expect it.
But this does not mean that you need to completely forget about this feeling. You may still think that it would be nice to build a strong relationship without giving up potential dates. Just take it less seriously, without creating false expectations in your head.
Remember the main things:
- Allow yourself to know your own “I”
- Enjoy the process
- Form a goal, not an agenda
- Build the life you like for yourself
- Get out of your comfort zone
- Stay open-minded
- And don’t forget to choose happiness
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