3. Regularly set aside time to “light up” with him in bed.
Most likely, he is not capable of many hours of sexual marathons of those that can sometimes be seen in porn films and about which we, inflaming ourselves, read in “women’s novels.” But you know what? The best intimacy in the world is the intimacy between two people who love each other. He helps us soar to the very heavens, and feel as if you have penetrated into the very soul of each other, and connected at a level that you have never been able to reach – so let sex always be special and hot for you. Both for you and for him. If you make him feel like he is your personal sexual deity, he will surely respond in kind to you, and it will make your life together much happier.
Of course, the concept of “conjugal duty” is gradually disappearing into oblivion, and, in my opinion, this is wonderful, but healthy relationships are not in the least impeded by the same healthy mutual attraction to each other. And if it is difficult for you to completely open up and relax at home (whether it is because of children, fatigue at work, or because you are tired of your own walls at the very least “I do not want”), try to close yourself together in a hotel room and hang a sign on the door “do not disturb”.
Well, if so far this is beyond your family budget, it is quite possible that even a tent somewhere in a deep forest will be enough for you. And even if you don’t have the opportunity to get out somewhere, you can add a certain zest to your sex life by talking to each other about your fantasies (and bringing a couple to life), or, say, watching several videos from Pornhub together.
You can also take some candid erotic photos and send them to your partner from time to time. Don’t want to take completely nude photos or are you afraid that someone else will see them? Capture erotic, yet discreet and imaginative images. The strap of the bra slipping off your shoulder, the edge of your panties peeking out from under the jeans on the hip … In a word, everything is limited only by your imagination.
It’s actually quite simple: keep your desire for it. Dream about him, remember those sleepless and hot nights that you spent together, and what you like most about his body. And when you fill your mind with a desire to the brim, throw out this desire entirely on it, when you have the opportunity to be together and enjoy each other.
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